Following are excerpts
from a religious program featuring Saudi cleric Muhammad Al-'Arifi,
which aired on Iqra TV on July 5, 2011:
Muhammad Al-'Arifi:
There is no agreed-upon minimum age for the marriage of a boy or a girl.
It depends upon their maturity. Let's assume that someone wants to marry
your 20-year-old daughter. But your daughter's mentality and capabilities…
She wouldn't know how to handle it. You feel that her marriage is bound
to fail, because she has no understanding of how she is supposed to
behave. You think that this girl is not ready to get married. It would
be best to wait two or three years.
We don't want to marry
her off, and then have her husband divorce her after 2-3 weeks, saying:
"What is this?! This girl doesn't know what to do, she has no appreciation
of marital life. She knows nothing." In such a case, it is better
to delay marrying her off.
In the days of Prophet
Muhammad and his companions, people would get married at a younger age.
For example, how old was 'Aisha when the Prophet Muhammad married her?
I will give you a hint.
Member of
panel of Saudi youth: She was seven years old.
Muhammad Al-'Arifi:
And how old was she when he had sex with her?
Member of
panel: Fourteen.
Muhammad Al-'Arifi:
Fourteen?! No way, she was nine. You are getting married tonight and
you still can't count…
She was nine years old.
People might think it is strange that he married such a young girl.
But this was the age at which they used to get married. The proof is
that when the Prophet told Abu Bakr that he wanted to marry 'Aisha –
what did Abu Bakr say? He said: "You are more than welcome, oh
Messenger of Allah, but my daughter is already engaged." At seven
years old she was already engaged.
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If a girl's physical
and mental build allows her to get married, it is okay for her to get
married. There is no minimum age for a girl's marriage set by Islam.
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